Janelle Wehsack – Coach
It’s time. You deserve more than fine. You deserve fabulous.
My signature 1-on-1 coaching program
My signature program Fine to Fabulous helps nurturing, creative women – who also happen to work in a corporate environment – put their people pleasing tendencies behind them. Why? Because no-one wants to go through life thinking things are fine – when they could in fact be fabulous.
Let’s face it, so many of us kid ourselves into thinking things are as they ‘should’ be. We tell ourselves that we ‘should’ be grateful for having a partner, kids, pets, a nice home and a good job. “Everything’s fine, I shouldn’t complain”. These are the words I hear coming out of my client’s mouths. Over. And over. And over. Again.
However, those words are always flavoured with a tinge of….something. Sometimes that thing is hope. More often though, it’s a sense of resignation. I know the women who are uttering these words aren’t actually ok with fine. Deep down, they know they’re meant for a life that’s beyond mediocre. They want to live a fabulous life, on their terms.
But….heck, these women are so busy putting their work, partners and kids first they haven’t even got time to walk to the corner, let alone train for a marathon. If you’ve not had a romantic weekend in forever, the idea of walking hand-in-hand with your lover by a Venetian canal seems like fairy tale. As for work goals, surely not offending anyone or coming across as bossy or bitchy counts as aspirational these days? And let’s not even talk about picking up anything creative….who’s gonna write a book when they’re flat out writing a grocery list?
So, women filled with potential, live with fine. And they put fabulous on the back burner. Those big dreams and goals they had when they were a girl? They can be picked up later – can’t they?
Well, maybe. As long as nothing goes wrong in the meantime. But have you ever wondered what life might look like if you started employing tips and strategies that moved you towards fabulous today? Like right now?
It’s time. You deserve more than fine. You deserve fabulous. And you can have it sooner than you think, thanks to my Fine to Fabulous coaching program.
From Fine to fabulous
Who is this coaching program for? It’s for you, if….
- You secretly wish for a fabulous life, yet ‘I’m fine thanks’ are always the first words out of your mouth
- You know that you’re a lifelong people pleaser
- Deep down you know you want to feel more confident AND bring more pleasure into your life
- You fall asleep on the couch more often than you’d like to admit
- You worry that your partner wonders what happened to that exciting girl they fell in love with
- You’ve ever stopped yourself from following your passions with thoughts like ‘I’m too old’ or ‘my family needs me’
- You find yourself continually discounting your experience – life, career or otherwise
- You always find yourself saying ‘yes’ even when your heart screams no
- You waste so much energy worrying about that ‘silly’ thing you said\
- You don’t feel like your true self at work, the school gate or Christmas lunch
- You never want to start anything, just in case you can’t deliver it perfectly
- You want to bring your personality into your wardrobe
- You’re afraid you’ve forgotten how to have fun
- You want to be a role model for the special people in your life
Easy as 1,2,3
Go from fine to fabulous
Here's what we cover
Over 12 one hour video sessions, we’ll dive deep into the areas that can help a woman go from fine to fabulous. Because every woman is unique, I tailor our one-on-one sessions to suit each individual. But years of experience tells me that when a woman puts the right level of focus on these subjects she can start transforming her life – almost immediately. So know that during our time together we will explore the following:
In our first coaching session, we’ll get to know each other and get clear on your intentions for the coaching series.
We’ll also take a deep dive into the concept of purpose. Yes, we’ll go straight there. Because once you’ve created clarity around what your want for your life, it’s easier develop the confidence you need to chase down your heart’s desires. So many women struggle with the concept of purpose. But that’s because purpose is always sold as something massive – a goal that has to be life changing for you and for others. But I promise, it’s ok to have a ‘micro-purpose’. Or to have a purpose for a specific season in your life. Yes, these things are definitely ok, because you have permission to have a purpose as individual as you are.
“You’re always so positive. You always find a way to make things work.” That’s the feedback I receive most often in my day job. And ‘your positivity’ is also the trait that many of coaching clients call out as being one of the things they find most attractive in my coaching style. But my positivity is only one mindset that supports my confidence. Another big one is curiosity. It couples really well with a growth mindset. In this session, we’ll explore the most empowering and supportive mindsets. We’ll also look at beliefs and I’ll share tools that will help your tap into fabulous mindsets and beliefs.
It’s time to start building your confidence so you can show up in your life in more powerful ways. Confidence underpins how we feel day-to-day, and when we feel confident, we can take on the world. We’ll spend time baselining your current confidence levels. We’ll dig into the stories you’re telling yourself, start sorting the facts from the fiction, and look at the things you can do immediately to start building your self-assurance. Together we will look at concepts like giving yourself permission and dealing with the mean voice in your head. And we’ll acknowledge that while confidence always comes in baby-steps – the more you practice the skills that build confidence, the faster you’ll move from where you are to where you want to be.
Most of us don’t get far without strong people skills. And thriving relationships underpin every successful woman I’ve ever met. So in this session, we’ll focus on strategies designed to help make the most of your connections. Regardless of whether these connections are personal or professional, close or more communal, you’ll be able to apply the exact same strategies to strengthen all of your relationships.
Lot’s of women shy away from the word power. But like everything, context is what is important here. We’ll consider the idea of power as it relates to firing up your health and energy. Because things grind to a halt pretty quickly when you don’t have the energy to chase your dreams.
Burnout has rarely been a hallmark of any sort of fabulousness. Rather, it tends to be the reason that women find themselves in the middle of a marriage breakdown or a health crisis. And it’s driven many women to step away from careers, hobbies or volunteer activities they love. If you want long lived success on your terms, you need to learn to create boundaries and develop the ability to switch off. During this session, we’ll also delve into where other people’s opinions and your people pleasing tendencies might be holding you back. Yes, there’s a lot in here, but these concepts are all important foundational pieces for a fabulous life.
I’m sure you have heard the old adage related to ‘all work and no play’. Yet too often, women let their careers, families and other obligations crowd out pleasure. Their passions – photography, writing, tap-dancing, crochet, catching up with girlfriends, watching a movie – become distant memories. And lives are effectively put on hold. This session is tailored to explore strategies to allow yourself be more playful and pursue your passions, around your family and your job.
There’s no power to match a woman who believes her words have influence. And yet, so many women believe the exact opposite. In every imaginable context from work to play, women hold themselves back when it comes to using their voice because they’re afraid they’ll say the wrong thing. Or that they’ll come across as overly emotional. Alternatively, they worry for hours about the things they actually did say, thinking they could have handled themselves, or a certain situation better. This session is dedicated to uncovering the parts of your life where you feel you could be more persuasive and influential. And we’ll build the toolkit you need to bring out your voice so you’ll feel heard by everyone, including your partner, boss and your mother-in-law.
Have you ever considered the damaging impact inaction can have on your confidence? When you feel like you never get anything done, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy and you lose confidence quickly. In this session, I’ll share my strategies for kicking excuses to the curb and help you find ways to simply get started – no matter what you want to get started on.
Aside from procrastination, another concept that holds women back is our fear of making a mistake. We stop ourselves from unleashing our brilliance on the world because we’re afraid it’s not perfect. Sometimes we won’t start to chase our dreams because we’re certain we can’t deliver a perfect result. But perfection is an illusion, so in this session, we’ll dig into the powerful concepts of imperfection and vulnerability.
You want to really tap into your individual style so you feel super confident all the time. When you head to work. When you are at home. And especially when you are catching up with friends. But most of the time, you tell yourself that you don’t have a stylish bone in your body. How can I be so sure? Because I was one of those women – and I come across them all the time. In this session, we’ll look at the empowering impact style can have on confidence. And I’ll share all my tips for bringing your personality into the way you present yourself.
This is the session where we tie everything together. We’ll close out any outstanding actions or questions. And ensure that you have a clear vision for your future. Most importantly though, we’ll celebrate the progress you’ve made from fine to fabulous.
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It’s not long now until I’ll have the space in my calendar to take more women from fine to fabulous. If you’d like to be one of those women, get yourself on the waitlist now. Just fill in your details below and I’ll shoot you an email when it’s time to go from fine to fabulous. And in the meantime, I’ll send regular doses of inspiration, designed to bring a bit more fabulous into your everyday.